
Proud @ Every Age is a campaign by Pride Matters in Tech, in collaboration with Older Queer Voices, celebrating what it means to live and work authentically as an LGBTQ+ person at every stage of life.
Through a series of powerful photo stories and personal reflections, the campaign shines a light on voices that are too often overlooked, particularly those of older LGBTQ+ professionals showcasing the richness of lived experience across generations.
In a world shaped by technology, we explore how identity, visibility, and belonging evolve over time, while reinforcing a simple but important truth: Pride does not fade with age.
By amplifying real stories, we aim to inspire connection, foster inclusion, and ensure that everyone, regardless of where they are in their journey, feels seen, valued, and empowered to be their authentic selves.
Proud at Every Age:
Tim Brady

Tim Brady (He/Him), Telecoms & Digital Infrastructure Specialist and all round Pride Quiz Host extraordinaire.
Tim began his career in the Technology industry at a time when being openly gay at work was not always safe. In his early roles overseas, he often felt the need to hide parts of who he was, not out of shame, but to navigate environments where openness wasn’t accepted.
Returning to the UK marked a turning point. A moment of collective support from unknowing colleagues challenged the fear he had carried for years and gave him the confidence to be more open about his identity at work. From there, Tim’s experience in the tech industry became one of growing inclusion, where he felt increasingly able to be himself.
Throughout his career in tech, Tim has taken pride not only in professional achievements, but in the growth of others. Supporting colleagues, helping them build confidence and succeed, became one of the most rewarding parts of his journey.
He describes his approach to visibility as “quiet advocacy” – showing up authentically, contributing professionally, and helping normalise LGBTQ+ representation, especially in the technology sector without needing to lead with labels.
Now, reflecting on both identity and age, Tim encourages others to embrace every stage of life and to be sure they don’t miss out in the early days. Each phase brings new strengths, perspectives, and opportunities. Being proud, he believes, isn’t about holding on to who you once were, it’s about growing into who you are, and continuing to evolve with confidence and authenticity.
Proud at Every Age:
Peter Tatchell

Peter Tatchell (He/Him), pioneering human rights and LGBTQ+ activist, whose decades-long fight for equality and justice continues through the Peter Tatchell Foundation.
Peter Tatchell has been campaigning for human rights for almost 60 years. He began campaigning at 15 years old in 1967, long before social media, smartphones or even photocopiers existed.
Back then, activism meant standing on street corners handing out leaflets, organising public meetings, building phone trees and travelling across cities just to bring people together. Every campaign took time, energy and persistence.
Technology changed all of that.
Today, movements can mobilise globally in moments. Messages reach millions instantly. Communities once isolated can now find each other, organise and speak out. Peter admits he is “a bit of a technophobe”, but he also understands the extraordinary power technology has given activists.
Over nearly six decades of campaigning, Peter has been arrested 104 times and violently assaulted more than 300 times, including repeated attacks on his home. Some assaults left him with cognitive and visual impairments, as well as PTSD. Yet none of it stopped him.
What defines Peter is not only protest, but endurance.
At 74, he still campaigns almost every day. He walks constantly, exercises daily and says he does not really feel his age. More importantly, he has never lost his belief that change is possible.
Inspired by figures like Gandhi, Sylvia Pankhurst and Martin Luther King, Peter has spent his life standing up for LGBT+ people and wider human rights causes, often at great personal risk.
When asked what keeps him going, his answer is simple.
The work is not finished yet.
Proud at Every Age:
Tyler Hemmen

Tyler Hemmen (He/Him), recently retired technology executive with a 30+ year career across the US and Europe.
Tyler’s career in technology spans nearly three decades, across continents, cultures, and leadership roles. Originally from the US and now based in London where he lives with his partner of 12 years, he built his reputation not just on delivering results, but on creating environments where people could thrive professionally and personally. Today, in retirement, he reflects with both pride and perspective.
When Tyler first entered the workforce, being openly LGBTQ+ in corporate environments, particularly in leadership, still felt risky. “Don’t ask, don’t tell” wasn’t just a policy, it was an unspoken expectation. His response was to focus on performance: work harder, deliver more, stand out. But that success came at a cost. “Not being able to openly share such an important part of who I was created a constant undercurrent of self-monitoring,” he reflects. “It’s something many organisations still underestimate.”
For Tyler, Proud @ Every Age is about recognising progress while resisting complacency. While he’s inspired by the openness of younger LGBTQ+ professionals today, he is clear that visibility and allyship remain essential, particularly in a time when progress can feel uncertain or even challenged. “Progress should never be mistaken for permanence.”
As a senior leader, Tyler often felt a quiet responsibility to be visible not performative, but present. “Sometimes the most powerful change happens one conversation at a time,” he says. Through mentoring, leading teams, and simply showing up authentically, he helped challenge assumptions and create safer spaces for others.
Looking back, Tyler credits supportive colleagues and inclusive cultures as the biggest enablers of his success. And if he could offer advice to his younger self? “Authenticity and leadership are not in conflict. The more comfortable I became in who I was, the better a leader I became.” His story is a reminder that progress is built over time and that every generation has a role to play in shaping what comes next.
Proud at Every Age:
Satia Rai

Satia Rai (She/Her), COO at Leverage Security, is a trailblazing leader whose journey from the frontline to industry champion is reshaping the private security sector, using her voice and platform to make inclusion, visibility, and belonging the norm, not the exception.
Satia Rai is a respected leader within the security sector, known for her commitment to inclusive leadership and her ability to influence change across a traditionally male-dominated industry.
With a career spanning frontline operations through to strategic leadership, she has built a reputation not only for her expertise, but for the values she brings to the spaces she leads.
Her story is one of quiet determination, shaped by both the challenges and opportunities of navigating a career where authenticity has not always felt easy. Reflecting on her journey, Satia speaks candidly about what it has meant to show up as an LGBTQ+ professional in environments that have not always felt designed for inclusion.
“Being an LGBTQ+ professional in this space has required resilience,” she explains. “There were times when it felt safer to hold parts of myself back.” Yet, rather than allowing that to limit her, those experiences have strengthened her resolve. Today, she is a visible, values-led leader, committed to creating environments where others don’t have to make the same compromises.
Central to Satia’s story is the role technology has played in shaping both her career and her impact. Over time, digital platforms have transformed how she connects, leads, and influences. Technology has enabled her to expand her reach across the global security sector, supporting international collaboration, facilitating training at scale, and creating opportunities to engage with diverse networks that would once have been out of reach.
However, she is clear that this progress has not always existed. Earlier in her career, access to technology was more limited, and the sector itself slower to adopt digital ways of working. Visibility and progression often depended heavily on physical networks, which could exclude many voices.
“The shift to digital has been a game changer,” she reflects. “It’s opened up more inclusive ways to share knowledge, develop people, and influence standards across the industry.”
Satia highlights the importance of allyship and trust, being recognised for her work and given the platform to lead. She now uses that platform to advocate for a more representative and accountable industry.
Her advice to her younger self is clear: your truth is your strength, and it’s that authenticity that gives you the power to lead, inspire others, and drive meaningful change.
Proud at Every Age:
Sue Sanders

Sue Sanders (She/Her), CEO of Schools OUT UK, Co-Chair of Schools OUT UK, and Co-Founder of UK LGBT+ History Month
As one of the UK’s leading LGBTQ+ educators and activists, Sue embraced technological change long before it became commonplace. From her first computer in the late 1980s, through the rise of email, websites and mobile communications, she continually adapted to new ways of working and connecting with others.
She reflects on the practical technologies that transformed everyday life and campaigning, from fax machines and printers to the internet. Each development opened new possibilities for sharing information, reaching people and building communities.
More recently, WhatsApp has become an important way of staying connected with friends, colleagues and LGBTQ+ communities around the world. During the Covid pandemic, Sue quickly adapted to Zoom and virtual events, ensuring that education, activism and community conversations could continue despite physical isolation. Technology became not just helpful, but essential.
Today, Sue continues to embrace innovation and is experimenting with AI tools. While excited by the opportunities AI presents, she also stresses the importance of critical thinking, human judgement and using technology responsibly.
Sue’s story is not simply about keeping up with technological change. It is about a mindset of openness, lifelong learning and refusing to be left behind. From her first computer during the Section 28 years to exploring AI today, her journey demonstrates how technology can help connect people, strengthen communities and support social progress.
Proud at Every Age:
Nicky Martin

Nicky Martin (She/Her), Head of Legal for Hyperscaler customers at Ciena and founding member of Pride at Ciena
When Nicky reflects on her career in telecoms and tech, she recognises she has been living through two timelines at once. One is the rapid evolution of technology and it’s constant change, relentless innovation, the shift from manual processes when drafting and redlining and travelling miles to negotiate a contract was the normal to a world shaped by AI and always-on connectivity. The other has been slower and more complex: the journey towards inclusion.
Over the years, she has seen that keeping pace in this industry is not just about technical expertise. It’s about curiosity, adaptability, and a willingness to keep learning, no matter how long you’ve been in the field or how much you already know.
But for Nicky, as for many in the LGBTQ+ community, the challenge has never been purely professional. It has also been deeply personal.
There were times when she was editing herself, thinking carefully about what to share, how to speak, and what felt safe. That takes energy. Energy that could otherwise be spent creating, leading, solving problems, and supporting others. Time spent covering is time not spent fully showing up.
That is why authenticity matters. It is not just a value, it is what enables people to do their best work.
Looking back, some of the most defining moments in Nicky’s career were not just the milestones, but the people. The colleagues and friends who created space for her to be herself. That sense of safety builds confidence and allows ambition to grow.
And when it feels safe enough, visibility matters too.
Visibility challenges assumptions and opens doors for others who may still be questioning whether they belong. Even today, those questions persist in too many workplaces.
With experience comes something else: a sense of privilege, the ability to influence, to create space, and to open doors that may once have been closed.
For Nicky, this is where real progress happens. Not just in personal success, but in what is done with it, lifting others up, developing future leaders, and creating environments where those coming next do not have to work as hard to feel they belong.
Because right now, progress can feel fragile and in moments like this, visibility, courage, and allyship are not optional, they are essential.
So if you have a voice, use it to open doors. If you have influence, use it to lift others.
And if you have spent years in this industry as an LGBTQ+ person, remember this: your experience is not just part of the past. It is power. And it has a role to play in shaping what comes next.
Proud at Every Age:
Ivana Bitunjac

Ivana Bitunjac (She/Her), Director Voice, Colt Technology Services
‘’ There comes a moment when you stop trying to be the version of yourself that makes everyone else comfortable.’’
For Ivana, pride isn’t a destination, it’s something she has grown into over time.
There comes a point in life when something shifts. It may arrive through experience, through hard-earned wisdom, or because someone you trust gives you the nudge you need. For Ivana, that moment was realising she no longer needed to change herself for other people’s comfort. You stop pretending. You stop shrinking parts of who you are. You simply become yourself.
After more than 25 years in the technology industry, Ivana has seen incredible change. Technology is built on innovation and progress, yet it isn’t immune to old stereotypes, biases, or assumptions. Even in forward-thinking environments, there can be pressure to fit in or stay quiet. But with age comes perspective. You learn what matters, what deserves your energy, and what no longer does.
For Ivana, confidence has been one of the greatest gifts of getting older. Confidence in knowing her worth. Confidence in speaking up. Confidence in being visible, authentic, and unapologetically herself. She has discovered that true success isn’t about fitting in, it’s about belonging without compromise.
That confidence was strengthened by community. Supportive colleagues helped Ivana find her voice within the LGBTQ+ community and gave her the courage to step forward, share her experiences, and help others do the same. What once felt isolating became an opportunity to mentor, advocate, and create space for those following behind.
Looking back, Ivana’s advice is simple: have the courage to be yourself sooner. Don’t mistake fitting in for succeeding. Find people who value you for who you are, not who you think you need to become.
Because pride isn’t something you grow out of. As Ivana has learned, it’s something you grow into. Stay curious. Keep learning. Have a laugh. And live your life as the person you were always meant to be.
Proud at Every Age:
Jonathan Blake

Jonathan Blake (He/Him), pioneering LGBTQ+ and HIV activist, actor
Jonathan Blake is about to turn 77.
He has been out since he was 21, first building a career as an actor before life took an unexpected turn. In October 1982, he was diagnosed with a virus that had no name yet. Doctors told him he had between three and nine months to live. That virus would later become known as HIV. More than four decades later, Jonathan remains one of the UK’s longest-surviving people living with HIV.
What could have been a story defined by fear instead became one shaped by resilience, activism and love.
In 1983, Jonathan met Nigel Young at a “Stand Together” event organised by Gays for a Nuclear Free Future. The two would spend almost 39 years together until Nigel’s death in 2022. It was also during this period that Jonathan became involved with Lesbians and Gays Support the Miners, throwing himself into activism at a time when both LGBTQ+ people and those living with HIV were fighting for visibility, dignity and survival.
The impact of that activism continues to be felt today. Jonathan’s life helped inspire the character portrayed by Dominic West in the award-winning film Pride, a film which never could have been made or available for millions to watch worldwide without the internet and the technology that powers it and now he is being portrayed by Samuel Barnett in the stage musical adaptation. Yet despite becoming part of queer history, Jonathan’s focus remains firmly on the future.
When Jonathan was first diagnosed, information travelled slowly and finding community was far harder than it is today. Technology has transformed that reality. People can now access information, share experiences, find support networks and build connections in ways that previous generations could scarcely imagine. The barriers that once isolated many LGBTQ+ people have been lowered, even if they have not disappeared completely.
For Jonathan, Proud @ Every Age is a reminder that every generation has something to teach the next. He has witnessed profound change throughout his lifetime: from criminalisation and stigma, to increased visibility and acceptance; from isolation, to communities connected across continents through technology. Yet the most important lesson remains unchanged.
Human connection matters.
Today, Jonathan continues to speak openly about living with HIV, helping to challenge stigma and ensure that stories from earlier generations are not forgotten. More than forty years after being told he had only months to live, he is still swimming, still advocating, still inspiring, and still proving that age should never be a barrier to visibility, purpose or pride.
Sometimes, the most powerful act is simply to keep going and to make sure the generations that follow know they never have to do it alone.
Proud at Every Age:
Rebecca Jones

Rebecca Jones (She/Her), founder and CEO of objectsource
When Rebecca looks back on her life, she doesn’t think the greatest gift she was given was permission to be openly gay. It was something much simpler than that.
It was feeling safe.
Rebecca came out when she was 17 and was fortunate to have parents who accepted her without question. Looking back, she realises how profoundly that shaped her life. She never had to spend years hiding who she was or wondering whether she belonged. Being gay became one part of who she was, rather than something that defined her.
As Rebecca built her career in technology and eventually founded objectsource, she often found herself as one of very few women in the room. Like many leaders, she spent years believing she needed to have all the answers and prove herself. It was only with time that she realised the best leaders don’t create followers; they create environments where people feel safe enough to contribute as themselves.
That belief now shapes how Rebecca leads her own technology business. Whether it’s someone’s sexuality, age, gender or simply their personality, she believes people do their best work when they don’t have to spend energy pretending to be someone, they’re not. When people feel safe enough to be themselves, amazing things happen. They become more confident, more creative and more willing to help those around them flourish too.
Age has changed Rebecca’s understanding of pride, she now understands in a way that her 20-year-old self couldn’t, that confidence doesn’t come from proving yourself, it comes from knowing who you are. It no longer feels like something you need to declare. Instead, it’s become something quieter, reflected in the way you treat other people and the spaces you create for them.
Looking back, the advice to a her younger self is simple: don’t spend time trying to become the person you think other people expect you to be, find the people who make you feel safe enough to be yourself and then spend your life creating those same feelings for others.
Because perhaps that’s what being Proud @ Every Age really means.
Proud at Every Age:
Joanne Lockwood

Joanne Lockwood (She/Her), founder and CEO of SEE Change Happen, an internationally recognised Inclusive Culture Expert, keynote speaker, and podcast host who helps organisations build workplaces where everyone feels they belong.
If you ask Joanne about pride, then she will tell you that it has never been about reaching a destination. It has been about constantly striving to become more authentic, more visible, and more determined to create a world where others can do the same.
As Founder and CEO of SEE Change Happen, Joanne is a fearless inclusive culture expert, international keynote speaker, and champion for diversity and inclusion. Working with HR, talent acquisition, and learning & development leaders, she helps organisations move beyond policy and into practice, creating environments where people feel they truly belong.
For Joanne, “Proud at Every Age” means recognising that visibility does not have an expiry date. Every stage of life brings new wisdom, courage and perspective, and older LGBTQ+ people have so much to offer through lived experience, resilience and leadership.
That perspective has been hard-earned. As an older LGBTQ+ person working across technology and business, Joanne has seen how both age and identity can influence confidence, opportunity and visibility. There have been moments when she has had to create space for herself, experiences that only strengthened her belief that representation matters at every level.
Technology has been a constant thread throughout her life. Leaving school to join the Royal Air Force as an electronics engineer, Joanne worked on radio and aircraft communication systems before moving into civilian avionics and later the rapidly evolving world of IT during the personal computing revolution. Technology became her second career and remained central to her professional life for decades before she moved more fully into equality, diversity and inclusion work.
Today, her passion for innovation continues through AI, which she uses to build tools, diagnostics and resources that help organisations approach inclusion with greater confidence and clarity. Yet she remains clear-eyed about the risks. Technology, she says, is never neutral. Used without care, it can amplify existing biases. Used thoughtfully, with people at its heart, it can help create better systems, better conversations and more inclusive outcomes.
If Joanne could offer one message to her younger self, it would be simple: stay curious, stay brave and never shrink yourself to fit someone else’s idea of success.
